RepoDraghon Look, nothing in what I just read was akin to bullying. One of the things the internet is AWFUL at is TONE. See my caps? They're NOT bad. They are stressing important points.
ABE is trying to help you. Cusser said it too. Step 1 is most important here.
Any time you're troubleshooting an issue you should NEVER skip steps - you get in a big mess fast. That's what he's trying to help you understand and if he was in your presence, he'd be helping you and probably showing you what to do, but he can't because the internet both sucks and is pretty cool. He's being cool with you man, trust us -we're all being cool with you.