So, was the truck cranking and running normally before you replaced the Starter? If YES, then make sure that you have the ignition switch key, turned ALL the way OFF. There should be NO POWER on the smaller Solenoid wire where it connects to the solenoid.
If the truck is new to YOU......then make sure a previous owner didn't wire in a toggle switch somewhere near the steering wheel to replace or rewire a malfunctioning ignition switch.
Can you take some pictures of the wire connections at the starter & solenoid and post them here?